3 Things To Remember When You Want To Change People
Photo by Ben Duchac on Unsplash We often wish to change people when they don't behave the way we expect. We think that if they changed and corrected their flaws, they would be happier.
And, as a result, we would feel more comfortable around them. Somehow we assume that we know what's best for them and expect them to do what we say.
Wouldn't it be nice if we could just tell them what we think they should do, and they would actually change?
As you might have already figured out, it doesn't really work that way.
Although it's admirable that you want someone to make positive changes in life, getting someone to make lasting changes is not exactly a simple process.
Consider these 3 things when you wish to change another person in your life.
1. You can't control anyone else. You can only control your reaction to different situations in life. When you feel bothered by other people's behavior, you need to change your own response towards it.
Realize that the way you …
And, as a result, we would feel more comfortable around them. Somehow we assume that we know what's best for them and expect them to do what we say.
Wouldn't it be nice if we could just tell them what we think they should do, and they would actually change?
As you might have already figured out, it doesn't really work that way.
Although it's admirable that you want someone to make positive changes in life, getting someone to make lasting changes is not exactly a simple process.
Consider these 3 things when you wish to change another person in your life.
1. You can't control anyone else. You can only control your reaction to different situations in life. When you feel bothered by other people's behavior, you need to change your own response towards it.
Realize that the way you …
