How To Be Okay With Not Being Liked By Everyone
For some people, it is hard to deal with the fact that not everyone is going to like them. While it is understandable that you would want to maintain a cordial relationship with the people in your life, but stressing about being liked by every person you meet is not healthy.
You think even if one person doesn’t like you, it means you must be lacking in something. You take it too personally.
Being liked by everyone becomes super important to you when,
-You constantly seek validation from others.
-You always want to prove yourself to others.
-You also tend to compare yourself to others.
-You only feel happy when someone praises you.
As a result, you keep trying to please everyone and keep searching for happiness outside of yourself.
But what you forget in this process is that different people have different perspectives.
Just think about it, when you interact with so many people every day, who come with their own baggage, their own perceptions, how can you make sure that you would be like…
You think even if one person doesn’t like you, it means you must be lacking in something. You take it too personally.
Being liked by everyone becomes super important to you when,
-You constantly seek validation from others.
-You always want to prove yourself to others.
-You also tend to compare yourself to others.
-You only feel happy when someone praises you.
As a result, you keep trying to please everyone and keep searching for happiness outside of yourself.
But what you forget in this process is that different people have different perspectives.
Just think about it, when you interact with so many people every day, who come with their own baggage, their own perceptions, how can you make sure that you would be like…
